Editor's Choice for 2004 - Match.com!

Comparing dating sites can be tricky business. Do they have the same features, do they work the same way, how do they charge for services. It gets hard to compare apples to apples. So I have my own, unique methodology for picking the best of the best.

Why Number one?

For me there are only two real criteria. First, is the site affordable. Just about all the sites are within a few dollars of each other cost wise. So given that, the only other criteria that means anything is - which site has the most attractive women. And by "attractive" I mean very good looking with a picture profile and in my target age range.

Other than that, I really don't care about who has the most fancy bells and whistles. I want lots of hot women and some way to contact them. Simple enough.

That's why free memberships are often a bad thing for the site owners. Whenever I'm looking at a new site, I browse through the pictures of local women and get a feel for how many I would be interested in. If there are only a few, I move on.

So based solely on this somewhat unique methodology, I can easily say that Match.com is now the leader by a large margin. They simply have more good looking women than any other site I've tried. And I've tried a lot of sites.

Launched on the Web on April 21, 1995, Match.com was the early mover in the online dating category and now has more than 9 million members with profiles posted or who are active users.

Initial sign-up is easy and free. You don't have to provide your life story and a credit card number just to take a look around. Members can post multiple pictures and I really like that as it can be hard to get an accurate read based on one picture only.

Fun new features on the site include Wink, letting members playfully flirt with other members by sending an animated smiley face; Match Video, where members can post a video to their profile or send video emails, and Match Voice, allowing secure telephone conversations and voicemail messages. Other features include Match.com Messenger, which allows members to contact each other instantly and anonymously and Match.com's keyword search allows, for example, an avid tennis player to search for the word "tennis" in profiles on the site.

As of May of 2004, Match.com members were:

  • 40% Female, 60% Male*
  • 54% are age 30 +
  • 46% are under age 30
  • More than 79% have some college or a college degree, 12% have a graduate degree
  • 67% nonsmokers, 33% smokers
  • 36% have children, 64% do not have children
  • 46% want children, 33% are undecided, 21% do not want children
  • Generally located in or near major metropolitan areas

Right now, Match.com really is the 800 pound gorilla of the online dating world. Not only do they lead the pack with access through www.Match.com, but they also serve as the online dating service for the following partner sites:

AOL in the United Kingdom and the United States; CompuServe; Netscape; Digital City; BellSouth; InfoSpace; MSN across Europe, Asia and the United States; Citysearch; Evite; BET Interactive; New York Times; AT&T Worldnet; Earthlink; Oxygen; BlackAmericaWeb.com; LookSmart.com; BlackVoices.com; BlindDatetv.com; Excite/iWon; iFrance; iSpain; Alta Vista in Australia; Friends Reunited in the UK; and Bild.T-Online in Germany

You've heard it before, dating really is a numbers game, and you never can tell who is going to be attracted to you and who is not. Right now Match.com gives you the best chance of finding mutual attraction. And don't forget my very scientific site ranking criteria. For now, Match.com not only has more women, but more hot women to choose from.

Runner Up

Another good choice with attractive women is MatchMaker,com. It is set up a bit differently with sites based on most major cities. Also worth a look!

 

 

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